Bianca - thanks for the tips and links - they look great, and it's clearly working for you, judging by your picture which looks fantastic!
Re. male vs female training: my 2 cents worth is that the main gender difference i have noticed is in training goals... i think the media image of women leads many of us to aim more for a very small, lean look with much less obvious muscle than guys. Hence the female fear of lifting heavy equating to bulky macho appearance... etc..
I've only just recently realised that training more like the boys makes me look more like a woman - hard training accentuates the muscle 'shape' specific to your gender so gives great curves for us girls.
Also, as Rusha has very correctly mentioned before, us girls just simply don't bulk as much as guys, so proper body building training just gives sexy definition.
The one thing i can think of that might cause a real difference - and i'd love feedback from you guys/ girls on this - is the biomechanical differences, i.e. womens' wider hips and looser ligaments making technique slightly different (i.e. due to knee/ hip angles and such)...?